Saturday morning. Marilyn and her mother-in-law Ellen are on the patio with Max. |
Ellen: |
[She puts Max's teddy bear in his playpen.] There's your teddy bear, Max. |
Ellen: |
He just loves that teddy bear that Grandpa Philip bought for him. |
Marilyn: |
I took him to Philip's office yesterday for a check-up. You should have seen the look on his face when Molly gave him the injection. |
Ellen: |
Oh, did he cry? |
Marilyn: |
No. My dear little boy just looked up at me as if to say, "Mama, what are they doing to me? Help!" |
Ellen: |
How did you feel? Tell the truth. Didn't you feel terrible? |
Marilyn: |
I sure did. I held him closely. I kissed the top of his dear little head. He looked up at me. He tried to smile. Being with him helped. |
Ellen: |
Helped him? Or helped you? |
Marilyn: |
Being a mother is not easy, if that's what you mean. |
Ellen: |
Speaking of being a mother, I've been meaning to ask you what you were thinking about regarding going back to work. I know Rita Mae called. I can imagine what is going through your head. |
Marilyn: |
I'm sure you can, Ellen. |
Ellen: |
There are so many things to consider. One thing that makes it easier for you is that you have us. Max will always have a family member to watch over him while you're at work. I didn't have that when Richard and Susan were born. |
Marilyn: |
What did you do? |
Ellen: |
I chose to continue with my career as a music teacher. We hired a woman to watch Richard and the Susan, and I continued with my career. |
Marilyn: |
Do you think you made the right decision? |
Ellen: |
I think I did. But when Robbie was born, I decided to give full-time attention to raising Robbie. I felt differently at that time. |
Marilyn: |
And you gave up your career as a music teacher? |
Ellen: |
Not exactly. I continued to teach piano lessons at home. |
Marilyn: |
How did you feel about being away when Susan and Richard were babies? |
Ellen: |
I think I did the right thing for them and for myself and for Philip. We needed the money. Remember? |
Marilyn: |
Well, we do too, Ellen. Everything I earn helps us towards getting that house we want and need. |
Saturday afternoon. Susan joins Ellen, Marilyn, and Max on the patio. |
Susan: |
I can't wait till he's just a little older. Our toy company makes the most wonderful toys for kids. |
Marilyn: |
Max thanks you. I thank you. And Richard thanks you. Now may I please say hello? |
Susan: |
[to Marilyn] Hello. [to Ellen] Hello. I miss Max and think about him all week long. We talk about him at dinnertime. |
Ellen: |
Will you please try to relax? I've never seen you so wound up. |
Marilyn: |
You seem to be enjoying the pressure. |
Susan: |
The truth is, I am. My job is not an easy one, but I really enjoy it. |
Marilyn: |
That is exactly what I wanted to talk to you about, Susan. |
Susan: |
What's the problem? |
Ellen: |
Marilyn's career. |
Marilyn: |
Well, my choice of careers. |
Susan: |
Choice? |
Marilyn: |
My career as a fashion designer versus my career as a mother. |
Susan: |
Why does it have to be one or the other? |
Ellen: |
That's what I said. |
Marilyn: |
How's that? |
Susan: |
Why can't you do both? |
Ellen: |
She's right. |
Marilyn: |
Both? |
Susan: |
Well, that's what I do. I have a job, and I have Michelle. I take care of both to the best of my ability. It's not easy, but what is? |
Ellen: |
And that's what I did. I did both with Richard and Susan, and I did both with Robbie. |
Marilyn: |
I thought you stayed home with Robbie? |
Ellen: |
I did. But I was lucky enough to have a career as a music teacher which I could continue at home. |
Susan: |
Why can't you work at home, Marilyn? You are very talented. Designing dresses is a career you could establish out of you home, couldn't you? |
Marilyn: |
I don't know why I didn't think of it. It seems so simple now. For a year or two I could stay at home with Max and do my dress designs. |
Ellen: |
And you could make your dresses at home. |
Susan: |
Sounds like a great way to solve the problem. |
Ellen: |
That could solve your problem, Marilyn. |
Marilyn: |
I'm going to call Rita Mae at home and ask her to come by and talk about it. She wants to see Max, anyway. |
Susan: |
I think that really answers your questions, Marilyn. You can do it. Do your designs at homehere? |
Marilyn: |
And let Rita Mae do the selling at the boutique. |
Ellen: |
And you can both benefit financially. |
Marilyn: |
I'm going to call Rita Mae right now. Oh, Susan, thank you so much for coming all this way from the city to talk to me about it. I hope you don't mind having taken so much time away from your busy schedule. |
Susan: |
Are you kidding? I don't mind at all. As a matter of fact, I came to spend some time with my favorite nephew. [She bends over the playpen.] |
Ellen: |
I think you should call Rita Mae right now. I think your idea of working at home is perfect. |
Marilyn: |
I don't know what I would do without you. I'm lucky to have you all. |
Ellen: |
We are lucky to have you, Marilyn. |
Susan: |
And so is Max. |